Our Rules
#1: We Read the Book and We Show Up
We come having turned pages and ready to talk about them. Skimming will be sensed. Our eyesight might be fading, but our judgement remains sharp.
We're busy adults and sometimes won't finish the book or miss a meeting. That's fine.
If you didn't read, say so upfront and lean into listening mode. If you miss a session, we'll catch you next time.
#2: Respect the Quirks
Highlight every sentence, dog-ear pages with abandon, or annotate like you're solving a crime. All reading styles are welcome.
However, no monologues. This is a conversation, not a keynote. Aim for insight, not airtime.
#3: Disagree with Ideas, Not Humans
Debate the ending, question the narrator or hate the protagonist. Feel free to express your feelings about the book. We critique the work, not each other's intelligence, taste or interpretations.
Sharp minds, soft edges.
#4: Laugh, Cry and Snort Unapologetically
If the book makes you feel things, express it with gusto. If the book moves you, let it.
Emotional restraint is not required here.
#5: Curiosity is Required
Wine, tea or snacks are optional. Curiosity is not.
Arrive willing to explore, reconsider, and occasionally be surprised.
#6: Facilitator Comes Prepared
We rotate facilitators for each book and everyone takes turn steering.
Bring 3-5 questions that invite thought and reflection. Not "Did you like it"?
Gently redirect conversation if we drift.
Introduce the next book or additional chapters if current book continues.
The richness of this gathering depends on our participation. The more we bring, the more we get.
